Saturday, August 29, 2009

Where, oh where, has Julia been?

First let me apologize for being such a lazy blogger lately. Julia continues to grow, develop and make us proud every day! Lots has been happening around the Hensley household so I will take the easy way out and just make a list!
  • Turned 6 months old on August 2nd
  • First trip to Santa Cruz Beach Boardwalk, Phil's Fish Market, the Mystery Spot, Capitola and LaSelva Beach
  • Rolls around to get from one side of the room to another
  • Scoots on her butt while sitting to make her way to a favorite toy
  • Got her first "trim" (not a haircut, just a trimmed the long wispies)
  • Still no crawling, she would rather stand up than lie on her tummy
  • Moved from 1st foods into 2nd foods (baby food)
  • Loves green beans and carrots and is starting to accept fruit (she makes the funniest faces when trying new fruits, must be way too tart for her!)
  • Starting to drink from a sippy cup (Note: she refuses a bottle, so this is HUGE)
  • Moved from bassinet to sleeping exclusively in her crib (this has been since June, just failed to mention it earlier)
  • Says MomMomMomMom, though without meaning (still music to my ears!)
  • LOVES, absolutely LOVES (did I mention LOVES?) to go swimming!
  • Arranged daycare to start sometime in September (Mommy is having a hard time with this one)
  • Is wearing size 12 months +
  • Last doctor's visit weighed 18 lbs 3 oz and 28 inches tall (way ahead of her peers in height!)
  • Loves to play with her friends at work
  • Had her first (awake) visit to Will's resting place (all other visits she has been sleeping)
  • Was featured in a follow up article in the Dameron Digest (Dameron Hospital Foundation's periodical)
  • When not sleeping or eating, she laughs all the time, loves to play with Daddy, go to work with Mommy and spend time with Nana and Papa

I will post pictures soon -- I promise!!


Thursday, July 16, 2009

Thursdays with Liana

On Thursdays at work, Julia gets to hang out with one of her BFF's -- Liana Osorio. On this past Thursday, most of the day when one was awake, the other was sleeping... making it hard for a photo op. Donning matching giraffe print outfits, here they are hanging out at the end of the day.

"Who's this and why is she wearing MY outfit!?"
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"Uhhhhh... why is she touching me?"
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"Maybe she's kind of cool... she seems nice."
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"Ok, I think I like her, she is funny!"



"Patty cake, patty cake, baker's man..."

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Battle of the Bands

Today the executive staff at work hosted a Relay for Life fundraiser called "Battle of the Bands" where groups assembled and performed songs using the game Rock Band. To raise money, we could pay to enlist a band to perform or we could pay to dress down in rock star or groupie attire. Julia took to the competion and dressed as AC/DC's #1 fan and even snapped her photo with some other "band mates".

Dressed and ready to roll, complete with faux-hawk!

Posing with the other AC/DC #1 fan.


Julia and Dree (aka Mike D from the Beastie Boys)

Wendy, Tommy, Julia and Christian all sporting AC/DC attire


Chillin' at work in the Bumbo


Side view of the faux-hawk

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

Babies in the Workplace

Julia comes to work with me everyday... and here are a handful of pics that a friend, Bernadette, took last week from her iPhone.





Friday, June 12, 2009

Growing up fast...

I have really been slacking on the updates. Julia is getting so big, so fast - right before our eyes. Like any new parents, we are so overwhelmed with the amount of love we feel for her. As we miss Will every day, Julia reminds us that life has many twists and turns and we are eager and excited to learn as each day unfolds.

Here is the low down on what we have been up to:
  • Julia has been going to work with me every day since May 11. She is loved by many and is spoiled by all. She enjoys all her work "Auntie's" and loves to explore new offices and departments without Mom in tow. Regularly a coworker will stop by and take her for awhile.
  • Julia rolled over for the first time and neither David nor I witnessed it. I was at work and she was on her activity mat playing as I was working with a colleague... I turned to look something up and she rolled over and my colleague, Ann, was the only one to witness.
  • David travelled late last month for work and while he is gone, he misses Julia so much. I miss him too, not to mention the extra set of hands!
  • March for Babies came and went. We raised just over $1700 with a huge help from Julia's Auntie Sandy (my sister-in-law). Sandy raised money in memory of Will all the way from Jerome, Idaho! One day I received a letter in the mail with checks totalling $565. I was so humbled and had no words (yes, me... I was speechless... hard to imagine!).
  • Four month well baby check up was June 1. Julia weighed 15 lbs 4 oz and measured 27 inches long. Her height continues to top the charts at 100 percentile!
  • We started rice cereal! She enjoys it as she learns new textures. Vegetables, here we come!
  • Julia definitely has a voice! She talks up a storm, to us, with us, at us, along with music... one day David and I were having a conversation and as we talked, she talked louder and louder. Soon we realized we raised our voice and she raised her voice even more. It will be a loud household one day.
  • As Julia gets bigger, she is really taking after Daddy! When she was born, many people said she looked just like me, as she grows, she is really looking like David!
  • Those of you who donated to the Dameron Hospital Foundation in memory of Will... keep your eyes out for the next edition of the Dameron Digest. They are doing a follow up story on our family and our newest miracle, Julia.

And now... photos, please enjoy!

Showing off her neck muscles!

Yummm... rice cereal (mixed with one part slobber)!


Those legs never stop... little Miss Active!


She is very tall for her age... as seen here on her activity mat.


Two of my favorite people in the whole wide world!


Bunny slippers given to Julia by Auntie K...


As her hair thins out and the remaining hair grows into scraggly pieces, we are looking for new and creative ways to keep her hair out of her face... this is her Pebbles Do.

Monday, May 25, 2009

Down and out...

Julia has been feeling a little off lately. Last Tuesday while at work she started fussing and felt warm so I took her temperature and it registered at 101.7. We immediately packed it up and went home for the day... it just so happened that the Dad was also out of town through Friday. Not good timing to have a sick baby and no Dad to help... but anyway... I dosed her with Tylenol which seemed to do the trick and she felt a little better but her eating habits were totally out of whack along with her sleeping habits.

Onto Wednesday... hoping it was just a 24 hours thing, we went to work on Wednesday but she was still eating poorly and started spitting up at each feeding which is out of character for her. After spit up #4 both she and I were covered in throw up so we dosed up some more Tylenol and packed it up and headed home. Much of the same through the evening, but she wasn't sleeping all too well, so we were up every 2+ hours or so, pacing the floor trying to find some type of comfort.

Next came Thursday... still registering a slight temperature we plowed through the day with more crying, lots of dirty diapers, little sleeping, even less eating and then a call to the advice nurse. I wanted to make sure what I was doing or not doing was right for someone in her condition. Sounded like everything I could do I was doing and she added that if the fever continues to spike or rear it's ugly head for more than 72 hour straight to come in and see our Pediatrician.

Freaking Friday... one day I will not forget anytime soon. Sleeping was not any better, eating was a little better but by noon another fever spiked and I called to make an appointment with the doc. We headed out the door to Kaiser and was promptly seen by Dr. Millar. Her weight was up to 15 lbs 3 oz, which is great, her temperature, though, was 100.7. Not horrible but not great especially since it had been 4 days at this point. With no outward symptoms, he ordered a urine sample. Do you know how to get a urine sample from a 15 week old baby? Catheter! Now as adults, we HATE these things... can you imagine what a little tiny baby thinks? After 20 minutes of screams and tears, the nurse was not successful at the catheter, so they taped a bag on her, closed up her diaper and told us to wait for her to go on her own. In the meantime the doc ordered a chest x-ray and some lab work.

Down to Radiology we went. X-rays. Hmmm. I can handle this, after all she has had an ultrasound on her hips, how bad can an x-ray be? For the record, an x-ray on an infant is another word for TORTURE! Sitting up, with her legs dangling in this contraption they have me hold her arms up over her head. Doesn't sound too bad, I can hold her still. That was not the plan. They closed this clear plastic tube tightly around her torso and head while her hands are up over her head. Her face was peeking through a cut out in the plastic and the tech then went in and taped her head into the tube. While screaming bloody murder they face her against the x-ray machine and ask me to leave the room. Now, I am a NICU mom, I can handle this, right?! Nope! I am standing in the hallway listening to the tech say "It's ok, one more shot" over and over while Julia is screaming on the top of her lungs. Should make for a good x-ray but I am sure she is traumatized for life now, and if she isn't I am. When they called me back in, she was still stuffed into what they call a Pigg-O-Stat (google it, I did) and she was looking at me with her big brown eyes crying out for me to save her! Deep breathe as I live the torture. Result - Chest x-ray was normal.

Over to the lab... all I can do is make the best of it. She has already had an unsuccessful catheter, a torturous x-ray and now they want to draw blood from her arm - ON A 15 WEEK OLD INFANT! We check in and sit down. They feel for a vein, tourniquet and all. She is screaming and squirming and the lab tech thinks she finds something worth poking. She cleans her arm with alcohol and then goes to the front desk to check in the next guy. He is only there to pick up a specimen cup, which she cannot find. As we sit and wait, Julia crying I realize that she needs to pee and since they taped a bag to her little vajay-jay and closed up her diaper, her body heat (remember she has a fever) must have melted to seal on the bag and instead of filling the bag or her diaper, she has peed all over me and the lab chair. I am now sitting and waiting for the lab tech to find a specimen cup or some other dude, call other facilities in the area and proceed to look in every cupboard and drawer as I sit holding a fussy, warm temperatured sick baby that has just peed all over my lap. Now it looks like I peed my pants! She finally comes back and digs all around in Julia's arm with a needle and cannot get a vein. She tells us she can't do it and to go to another Kaiser Lab. I am tired, worried, stressed, pissed, and pissed on - and we still don't know what is causing Julia's fever.

Back up to the doctors office, he checks her urine output, tries to test what urine is left in the bag and tells us to go to Manteca for lab work and once we are done with the labs to check into Pediatrics over there for an antibiotic injection.

Labs at Manteca went much better. Still had tears but at least they got the blood sample they needed. Over to Peds and the injection caused yet another round of tears. Once she calmed we had to remain there for 30 minutes to check for a reaction. She nursed, fell asleep just to be waken for a rectal temperature reading. Note: She hates rectal readings!

After all the chaos, we were told we needed to return on Saturday for a follow up.

Saturday... now the Dad is home, thank goodness! We return to Kaiser, still no clear sign of why she has a fever, antibiotic injection #2 and we wait... wait for the blood culture to grow for 24, 48, and 72 hours.

Being sick royally sucks. Being a sick baby really sucks. Trying to handle all of it with no husband totally sucks. Here we are on Monday, she has pretty much been fever free for 24 hours. It elevates a bit during the day but she seems to feel better.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Where has the time gone?

Holy cow... time is flying by! Let's see... what has Julia been up to? Well, she is the cutest thing ever... oh ya, you already know that, don't you!?



Let me sum up the last month...

  1. Mad dash to Carmel for a week long vacation before returning to work. Julia had a great time and so did we. Pictures are at a minimum as every time we went out we forgot the camera. We did catch a few stills on our video camera but so far I have no idea how to retrieve them.
  2. She is smiling way more. She has been doing this for quite some time, starting out only smiling for her daddy, but now she regularly smiles at anyone who looks her way.
  3. She loves her activity mat, laying and playing for up to 30 minutes. Her activity mat is a rainforest theme with lights and sounds. She loves to bat and kick at the hanging animals. She started out punching them but now grabs them pretty good.
  4. She tried out her jumperoo, but is still a little too small for that activity. As I tried taking pictures, she fell face forward an bumped her check bone. I thought we were going to have her first black eye, but thankfully we didn't. No calling CPS!
  5. Back to work... Julia has successfully gone to work with me for a week. She did great her first week but today had an elevated temperature so we worked from home so she didn't disturb the others in our work area.
  6. Swimming! Omigosh - she loves the water. We started putting her in the big tub while in Carmel and ever since she loves being in the water. Now bath time is in the big bath tub and she loves it... so much, she screams when it is time to get out. Since she was enjoying the tub we look her swimming in the BIG pool. She loves to kick her legs and splash with her arms and hands. No pictures of pool time, not with me in a bathing suit! No way!
  7. Ally Zabba. This is her new blanket. She loves it! It is silk on one side and soft fluffy material on the reverse. She grabs it, sucks on it, rubs her face with it - just loves it!
  8. Julia attended her first March for Babies event in memory of her big brother Will. She slept most of the time and woke just to eat. Uneventful for her, but we raised over $1200 so we are very happy about that! And our team from Dameron Hospital won first place in the t-shirt contest!

Here are some pictures to enjoy!



Our morning girl... she loves morning time (unlike her Mommy!).

First time in the Jumperoo... still a wee bit too small for it, so we will wait on this one.

Smiles for Nana... I was on the phone with Nana and when I told Julia that Nana was on the phone, she just smiled and smiled!

After a long day of swimming, well actual only 20 minutes or so, but she just crashes afterward. Tired girl.




This is from today, when she had a fever, complete with wash cloth and her new favorite blanket, her Ally Zabba. Look how big her feet are!

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

It has been over a week since we blogged! Wow, time is really flying by these days, probably because I am gearing up to return to work. Where I work, we have a program called Babies in the Workplace where I am able to take Julia to work with me until she is 8 months or crawling... so I have been preparing to transition her to a new environment. We have purchased a second playard and boppy pillow and also have been shopping for work clothes for both of us! As she gets more active, I may need to bring an activity mat to keep her stimulated too. I imagine if the playard is not needed I may just need to purchase a travel swing or second bouncy chair, we shall see.

Today we are getting ready to go out for a playdate with Aly and Charlie. Charlie was born just over a week after Julia and Aly is a former co-worker of mine. The weather is warm, so we are meeting for lunch indoors! I haven't seen Aly for over a year but chat often in email on on Facebook, so it will be nice to catch up and compare baby stories.

Julia is definitely a morning person, not sure where she gets that because I surely am not! She wakes up after 8+ hours of sleep and coos and laughs. She is all smiles in the morning, which is such an amazing site to wake to! Her mornings are pretty consistent so I am hoping they continue because getting ready for work will be pretty easy.

The family (wow, that is a weird word) is going to Carmel on Tuesday for 5 days! We will be staying at the Highlands Inn, where we are vacation owners. It will be Julia's first trip and we are exited to take her to the wharf, 17 mile drive, and downtown Carmel. The weather should be cool, so we will bundle her up and hit the road.

Hopefully I will have some great pictures from vacation to share!

Monday, April 13, 2009

Julia's 1st Easter

"Easter time... Mom is a bad photographer, because my feet are not that big!"
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"Who's idea was it to wake me up? Can't a girl get any beauty sleep around here?"


"I told you not to wake me, now you will pay dearly!"

" Someone tell Nana that tutu's don't belong on your head!"


"Or around your neck... but I sure look cute, don't I?"


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Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Princess for a Day...

...oh who am I kidding? She will always be our little princecess! But today was especially so. Twenty-four hours after her first set of immunizations Julia came down with a fever of 101.9. It might as well have been 201.9 because it broke my heart to see her not feeling well. I know, I know, I better get used it it... but it was a first. After Tylenol, sleep, a cool wash cloth, and love from Mommy, she is already starting to feel better.

Here are some pictures from yesterday's injections and from today's ordeal.




And she sleeps...
(yes, she still has her faux-hawk, thanks to Daddy!)




Little one has taken over an entire home theater seat... don't tell Daddy, but I think he has lost his seat to Julia!




2 month check up

Today our little Miss had her 2 month check up at exactly 9 weeks old. Dr. Millar said she is doing great and of course we think so too!

As of 4/6/2009
Weight: 12 lbs 8 ozs - 83 percentile
Length: 24.5 inches - 98 percentile

I had a laundry list of concerns/questions for the doc and all of them were answered with"that's normal" or "that's normal and she will outgrow it".

Many people said that the first set of immunizations are hard to handle as a parent... I was extremely calm and it really did not bother me at all. Of course she cried, but for only 30 seconds or less. I think once you experience a child in the NICU, a parent can handle almost anything. Seeing how huge the needles were, seeing my baby girl cry, seeing her injection site bleed... it didn't really bother me. I was still reeling from the joy of the overall outcome of her 2 month check up when the doc said she is doing great. That is what is important... she is healthy. God is good!

Thinking about Will today, how old he would be. 17 months. Wow. He, too, is healthy... and whole and waiting to see us again in heaven, watching over us now. We miss you and love you little man!

Sunday, April 5, 2009

Weekend Update

It has been over a week since our last post. Julia keeps us so busy and we love every minute of it. She has been taking 0.6 mL of Children's Zantac twice a day for reflux and it really has been helping her (and us) get more sleep. Life before Zantac consisted of hours of painful screaming on Julia's part and painful tears on Mom and Dad's part. =( The Zantac helps to keep the acid in her tummy more neutralized, therefore, it isn't bubbling up into her throat. She has her first round of immunizations this week, hoping she tolerates them well. We love her pediatrician, Dr. Millar, he is so responsive whenever I have a question. I just send an email and within an hour or so I get a response!

We took her out to the Crossroad's Street Faire here in Manteca yesterday, while the street faire was a little lame, she slept through the entire afternoon, even missed the yummy corn dogs!

Here are a few pictures from last week. I love taking pictures of Julia when David holds her because she still looks little, see the one with her towel below.


She loves bath time - and who wouldn't with this luxurious towel! Bath towel is from Little Giraffe, ridiculously expensive for a bath towel, but soft and cozy. It was a gift and we love it!


Looking so tiny in her car seat, her little face looks so different when she is strapped in. The straps square off her little cheeks but she is getting used to her seat and usually sleeps in it the majority of the time we are out. As I type this she is sleeping in it, because when we got home I didn't want to disturb her, so I just left her in it.


This is the day we went to the Street Faire, she looks so serious. Note the belly... she is a good eater, that's for sure! We are starting to put bows in her hair. Dad doesn't love them, but I think they are cute. Headbands are a different story, she hates those!
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P.S. Please support our efforts for this year's March for Babies. Our goal is $2500 and we are doing a great job so far! David, Julia and I will all be marching in memory of Will. This year we have roped in Dameron Hospital and the NICU Support Group. We are going to blow the pants off the goal this year, I can feel it!! Donate in Will's memory today!

Wednesday, March 25, 2009